So
what happens in Hypnotherapy?
Hypnosis
is a safe and natural aid to therapy.
It allows you to focus on
what is happening in your life and how you can find solutions to make positive
changes; relaxation is often used, but not always.
Your mind is made up of conscious and subconscious - the conscious mind
is very logical and deals with everyday stuff - the subconscious is
where we store all our habits and everything we've learned through
experience.
Hypnosis simply allows us access to the subconscious
part of the mind so we can change some of the things stored there and so
make changes in our life.
We often use hypnosis ourselves
automatically - you've probably daydreamed - we usually daydream when we
have a lot to do and don't really want to make a start or even know what
to do first - by daydreaming, we move the conscious mind aside for a
while and access our subconscious.
How many times have you said "if I don't think about
it, I'll remember it" - that's also you trying to switch off your
conscious mind and use your subconscious - and suddenly, when
you're doing something completely unrelated, the answer pops into your
head.
In hypnotherapy we
want to do the same thing - we only use hypnosis to allow you easy
access to your subconscious mind.
The subconscious creates a
programme for everything we have ever learned - a kind of step by step
guide - and when a particular situation arises in our life, the
subconscious checks the programme to see how we need to behave. It
doesn't ask the conscious mind "is it alright if I run this programme",
it just does it!
This is why we react automatically to some events
and even to some people -
our subconscious matches the event with some previous experience and
pulls out the appropriate behaviour - so we find ourselves half-way
through responding before we even realise we're doing it!
So you
may find yourself saying things like "I didn't want to get angry,
but something just came over me when they talked to me like that"
- that's your subconscious matching the words that they said with
something in your past and pulling up the appropriate behaviour for it -
getting angry.
Using hypnotherapy we aim to change the response
that the subconscious mind automatically gives to something more
positive and useful for you.
I
understand that you might be nervous about hypnosis so please email me with any questions and I'll get back to you asap or book a free initial
consultation where we can chat in detail.